Them was loving words

Today was a memorable day for me and my children. We all have spring fever, the kids are taking Standarized tests next week, school is almost out for summer, the baby is teething... we needed a break. My precious cousin Kristen (who by the way was born with spina bifada) invited us to her home in the country for a field trip. Kristen works as a substitute teacher. I remember the day she graduated from high school. We all cried. It was a day that 18 years earlier- none of us would have believed would have happened. From there, she beat the odds and graduated from college. She is a fighter. She refuses to quit (more on that later).
So... back to my story. We took the day off of our usual schooling to enter Kristen's classroom of life. Wow. From the moment we walked in we were blessed by her heart. She had the day planned out to perfection. We began with a visit to the donkeys. She shared with us how donkeys are so important - both Jesus and Mary rode on them. She told us important facts about donkeys. Did you know they never throw up? :) Willie, Lily and Tuffy gave us quite a show as we fed them carrots and apples. There was enough laughter, smiles and joy to pass around the planet. Kristen shared her electric wheel chair freely and let the kids even do wheelies! Her dog Koda was right beside her. He is incredible to watch as he transports Kristen in and out of her chair! Next was the picnic. Everything prepared for us. It was the most complete, perfect picnic lunch I think I have ever had - complete with carrot sticks (my favorites). Kristen prayed for us and asked God to bless my dad (today happens to be his 71st birthday) and thanked God for the role model he has been to our entire family (Kristen's grandmother is my daddy's big sister) As she was praying for my daddy I had the thought - "those are loving words". The loving words continued as Kristen announced the next assignment - face painting. The kids were thrilled. Kristen popped right out of her wheelchair onto the ground and began the honors. The next words out of her mouth were something like "now it's time to pamper your mom". Once again those loving words! She proceeded to take me inside to a receive a spa treatment - complete with parafin wax treatment for my hands and feet! I will never forget the moment she got out of the chair on the ground in front of me and started on my foot massage. I remember when Kristen was born 30 something years ago. I remember hearing, but not understanding the diagnosis. Those were very dim days and now here she was on her precious, imperfect legs in front of me - washing my feet. It seemed backwards to me. Now that I think about it. It seemed backwards when Jesus washed feet. I fought back the tears as all I could say was "thank you SO much". It was a day to remember, following an unforgettable year. Over the past year we have heard some fighting words. Today we saw, heard and experienced Jesus. Today "them was loving words".


